5 Reasons to Love Returning Home from Your Trip Amanda Kendle December 19, 2012 Features, Inspiration 9 Comments They don’t say “There’s no place like home” for no reason. Even for passionate travelers like me — when I’m traveling I nearly always wish I could extend the trip indefinitely, even when I’ve been on the road for months — there are some definite perks to being home again. For those travelers who are reluctant to stop, these reminders might make you feel better about the inevitable end of your journey. #1: Eating Real Food Again I don’t eat too badly on the road, but there are some meals you simply can’t throw together in a hostel kitchen and there’s definitely a limit to how many times in a row you can eat out and still enjoy it. While I’m traveling I tend to let my healthy side go a little bit and permit myself a few extra chocolate bars or the special cake or pastry of the region, but ironically when I’m nearing the end of the trip there’s just one thing I’m usually craving: a big bowl of homemade, stir-fried vegetables. Being home also means simple things like making sure you have access to enough water to drink becomes easier again. Even in countries with perfectly safe drinking water, it’s not that easy to always have water at the ready, because you probably have to carry it with you. At home and even (the dreaded) back at work, you can always find something to drink — a simple pleasure. © jtbrennan #2: Sleeping in Your Own Bed Crawling into a bed freshly made with clean sheets that no strangers have ever slept on, and fitting in to that dent in the mattress made just for me — that’s heavenly. I’ve heard rumors that some extremely comfortable beds exist in luxury hotels, but I’ve never had the budget to test that theory. The places I sleep while I’m traveling range from you’d-rather-sleep-on-nails beds (especially in some hostels, but also while camping if the air mattress deflates) to better-than-nothing simple comfort. Coming home after some time away, crawling into a bed freshly made with clean sheets that no strangers have ever slept on, and fitting in to that dent in the mattress made just for me — that’s heavenly. #3: A Hot Shower and Clean Clothes At home, you’re much more in control. There aren’t a hundred other hostel guests who might use all the hot water before you get to the shower. The shower cubicle at home is clean, or if it’s not, you’ve only got yourself to blame, plus it’s your dirt, not the dirt of strangers. And then you get out of your nice hot shower and put on fresh clothes. Not the same jeans that you have been traveling in for a month, or the practical but unattractive jacket that’s been keeping you warm on your trip. At home, you can delve into your entire wardrobe to choose your clothes, not just rummage around in your backpack and put on a shirt that’s almost clean because you’ve only worn it once or twice. © kevindooley #4: A Chance to Reflect When you’re traveling, you’re constantly being exposed to new experiences, sights and sounds, and no sooner do you get used to one new thing than another comes along. It’s difficult while you’re still traveling to actually sit down and appreciate what you’re seeing. The real reflection, for me in any case, comes when I arrive back home. Particularly in the first few days after I return from a trip, when people around me are asking me about my experiences and I’m downloading my photos and unpacking my bags, I’m reminded of some of the most memorable experiences of my trip and I can think about them in more depth. That’s one of the great parts of travel for me — learning about new aspects of culture and other countries and then considering the differences between them and my own culture. Or simply reminiscing about a favorite adventure as a fond memory. All of this works much better when you’re at home in familiar surroundings, rather than someplace that’s giving you even more new impressions. #5: Time to Plan the Next Trip I’m not sure if it’s a universal experience or just a bad habit of mine, but being on the road tends to inspire new travel ideas in me. Perhaps a fellow traveler tells me a tale of a place I’ve never been but sounds so fascinating I have to put it on my to-do list, or something even quirkier like eating at a Cambodian restaurant in Amsterdam inspires me to visit Cambodia itself. In any case, being back home is the best time to start reading, dreaming and planning for the next trip. Rather than get the post-trip blues, just dive right back into immersing yourself in guide books and travel stories, and planning the next adventure. It doesn’t matter if it’s a year away or even ten, because there’s always more to learn about a destination and its culture. Maybe Ending a Trip Isn’t So Bad I’m the kind of person who would travel full time if finances and life in general allowed, but at least making this list has made me appreciate some of the comforts I’m so lucky to have at home. Have you got other home comforts and staying-in surprises that you enjoy when you return from a trip? Let us know in the comments! 9 Responses Benny Lewis September 23, 2008 I agree that these are great points to feel when you go home (I go back to Ireland 3 or 4 times a year between travels). But actually, it’s all stuff you can feel if you have a temporary home on the road. I don’t stay at hostels, I couchsurf and I usually stay in a city for a month or two and just rent my own place (works out cheaper than a hostel every time if you are good at finding stuff on a country’s equivalent to craigslist). I get my own big kitchen to cook nice meals, a bed just for me, etc. Since I take my time getting to know a city there’s plenty of time to reflect on it, compared to rushing around the world binge-hosteling… I also have plenty of time to sit down and plan the next trip. (I am lucky enough to work over the Internet, but if you have budgeted to travel for several months you can definitely afford doing what I do if you could afford hostels). So basically none of your points apply to me at all in terms of going home… they are just the comforts of having “a home”, which can be anywhere. I suggest you try travelling without staying in hostels :) It’s a completely different experience. Couchsurfing and renting a place to stay and really get to know a city is so much more satisfactory. When I do go home, it’s for reasons I was surprised not to see in your list… I go home to spend time with my family and to soak up my own culture again so I can share it with foreigners later. To see the places and friends I grew up with to get a better sense of self that you lose when travelling. That’s what my real home has to offer :) To see my philosophy of trying to get to know other cultures more deeply check out my blog! Thanks for the stimulating discussion ;) Reply Coqui September 23, 2008 Excellent article. #2 is a must after most vacations, eveb if you’ve been staying in a 5 star hotel. There’s nothing like waking up in your own bed… Reply Geoff September 24, 2008 The best thing about coming home for me, is that I live in London, my favourite city in the world. No matter how much I enjoy being away, I know there’s never any chance of me getting bored when I get back (well, until I start daydreaming about my next trip!) Reply Lola September 25, 2008 Definitely #5 :) Great stuff as always Reply Amanda September 27, 2008 Thanks all … @Benny, don’t tell my family I didn’t put them on the list. But to be honest, I’ve never felt homesick for my family – email and Skype etc seem to mean we’re actually in closer contact when I’m further away. @Geoff, you are a lucky man. I am fond of my home town (Perth) but it’s not always too exciting, certainly it’s no London! Reply Jason September 27, 2008 Hey thanks for using my photo up there, it fits well! How did you come across it? Nice article too. Reply wanderoverhere September 25, 2009 Great article! I can definitely identify with these. 2 and 5 are my favorite. Reply Corfu Villas December 18, 2010 Obviously, eating home food is the priority and a better reason to come back home. Meeting the loved ones also is the most important reason, I guess you have missed it… Reply Xavier January 2, 2013 I have a hobby that is just impossible to enjoy on the road and sometimes, after something new get released, I wished I’d be home to enjoy it. :-) Reply Leave a Reply Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Name* Email* Website Let\'s Make Sure You\'re Human ... * five − = 4 Comment Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. You can also subscribe without commenting.