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I’m A Travel Addict – But Is It Nature or Nurture?

by Amanda Kendle

Amanda Kendle applies that time-tested question – nature or nature? – to travel.

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The nature or nurture argument runs through all facets of life, and I often wonder how it relates to whether or not people have the travel bug. Is it something you catch from your family or are you born with this bug?

The thing is, on this planet, there are people who love traveling (probably you, and definitely me), and then, believe it or not, there are people who would rather stay home. But how do people become lovers of travel: is it something they’re born with, a part of their personality, or does it depend on their upbringing? I’m going to take a look at both sides and then let you all decide.

Child jumping in the air
In the Air © OliverAlex

Nurture: Parents Who Love Traveling

In my case, it’s fairly clear to say that there was some element of nurture in my love of travel. I was brought up in Perth, Western Australia, the most isolated city in the world, but my parents made sure that I knew there was more out there. Something that must have had a huge impact on me was a six-month trip we made with a mobile home around Europe when I was nine years old. (In case you’re wondering, Australian employers offer this amazing thing called “long service leave” which enabled my father to be away from work for six months but still get paid).

Anyhow, we visited about twenty countries, staying in caravan parks along the way or sometimes just parking near a beach for the night. I was a curious child and loved crossing borders to find new currencies, different languages and exciting products in the supermarket, all of which I recorded in countless journals. We met interesting people from all over the world, saw all the sights, and had our hair cut by my mother in the distant corners of Dutch caravan parks. We also played a lot of cards. It was perfect.

From that trip on – my first time on a plane – I was always interested in other countries. My parents repeated the travel bug experience by driving us around Australia for two months when I was twelve; they managed to send me on a month-long exchange to Germany when I was fourteen, and once I left home, all I wanted to do was get out of Perth. And they were always happy to see me traveling.

Young boy inspecting rock
Too Curious © makelessnoise

Nature: What Personality Makes a Travel Addict?

So you might conclude that my love of travel was instilled in me by my parents. But there’s always an exception: Enter my sister. She had the same experiences as me as a child but, although she does take a few vacations abroad now and again, she is far from being a travel addict. What are the differences between her and me? Well, we have fairly different personalities, of course. I seem to have a few key traits which make me more likely to become an avid traveler, including:

Restlessness

I’m easily bored. Just ask my mother, who had to deal with my constant requests for new kinds of entertainment when I was a child. Traveling to new places helps to satisfy this restlessness and keep me interested in life. I’m really not that good at staying still.

Curiosity

If I was a cat, I’d be dead. I have to know everything about everything, preferably immediately.

If I was a cat, I’d be dead. I have to know everything about everything, preferably immediately. I want to know the differences between Danish and Swedish and I must explore the chocolate aisle in a supermarket in every new country I visit. When I meet people, I ask questions. (Politely, I hope).

Open-mindedness

If something or someone is different, that’s never really disturbed me. Perhaps it’s because of my curiosity problem! I tend to accept new places for how they are and don’t let lifestyles or cultures that are different to mine bother me.

So What’s the Answer? Nature or Nurture?

Well, I guess from my case I’d have to say that it’s a bit of both. It’s interesting to ponder – if my parents hadn’t taken me traveling as a young child, would I still have had the urge to leave Australia and live in several other countries? Or if I had my sister’s personality which doesn’t have such a large dose of curiosity, would I have stayed home instead?

But I’m curious (surprise, surprise!) to know what the rest of you think. Does your love of travel come from nature or nurture, or like me, a bit of both? Please tell me what you think about this issue in the comments below.

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About the Author


Amanda Kendle is an Australian travel addict, writer and English teacher who's visited more than thirty countries. As well as regular blogging jobs including Jaunted, HotelChatter and Vagabondish, she writes magazine articles and is working on her first novel. She can be reached at her personal blog - Not A Ballerina.

Share Your Thoughts

Eva
December 10th, 2008

Hmm… Interesting question, Amanda!

I think, for me at least, it’s neither. Travel was a learned addiction for me. My parents didn’t travel much, and I never traveled much at all as a kid, apart from trips to Grandma’s. I never left Canada until I was 19, and I wasn’t pining to go abroad that whole time.

To be honest, I think I’ve gotten more addicted to travel as I’ve gotten better at it: my first couple of trips, I didn’t know what I was doing, and I definitely didn’t make the most of them (and I knew it). But each trip since has gotten better and better, making me look forward to the next more and more…

Does that make sense?

Silvia
December 10th, 2008

I think I’m pretty similar to you in that respect Amanda. I’ve been traveling since I was a baby (you should see my first passport photo… I was such a cutie!) with trips to Guatemala (where my family is originally from) and Mexico being a very common occurrence. As I’ve gotten older, my love of travel has only increased, and I’ve gotten to the point where I just want to see everything and yet go back to all the places I’ve been before. I think that my upbringing definitely had a lot to do with that, but my personality is also a huge part of it because I am very curious and I also love to imagine what it would be like to be other people (usually movie or book characters) and go on adventures. My siblings though, could not be any more different than me if they tried. They love the creature comforts of home and travel abroad begrudgingly, unless they happen to be able to stay in 4 or 5 star resorts, which to me isn’t what traveling is about at all. Sorry about the lengthy response, but thanks for the great question!

Ahi
December 10th, 2008

Strangely enough, I was just pondering this question an hour ago. My quasi-conclusion:

It’s not too hard to suppose that our genes could be hard-wired into travel addiction. Our hypothetical ancestors who traveled to new places and learned from new cultures seem much better suited to survival than those ancestors who couldn’t give up the comforts of the cave.

This exposure to new ideas, to new germs, and new inventions could feasibly have been passed down to us poor unsuspecting souls, who now travel without really understanding why.

Lola
December 10th, 2008

Definitely a mix of both. First trip abroad was probably at 6-8 months old.

Couple a family that loves to travel (residing all over the globe) with a super curious personality and insatiable fascination with geography, voila!

Michele
December 10th, 2008

I LOVE this post! Those character/personality types are so me.

Sylvia
December 10th, 2008

For me, my parents instilled th elove of travel in me. My first vacation was at 2 years old to Poland, and I haven’t stopped traveling since. I’ve got the bug, where I cannot go a few months without traveling somewhere…I really do not know where I would be if my parents had not traveled with my sister and me.

brian from nodebtworldtravel.com
December 11th, 2008

For me it was learned. I was/am curious by nature but I didn’t start traveling until a few years ago.

Now I am on a round the world trip. Things change quickly!

Amanda Kendle
December 11th, 2008

Thanks for the interesting comments so far, it looks like there are a few nature and nurture mixes like me, but to brian and Eva who said it was more learned, that’s really interesting! I guess this is a perspective I don’t have myself, but it’s good to see that even people who don’t travel early in life can suddenly get the bug. That gives me hope for all those people who’ve never traveled – it still could happen one day.

Please keep your comments coming – are you nature or nurture? – because remember, I’m insanely curious!

Nomadic Matt
December 11th, 2008

Amanda, did you buy this site from mike! I feel like you’re the only author! not that i mind since I love ur writing. lol

I think it was my nature, though i didn’t discover it until later in life. My folks and I didn’t travel much. Now I can’t get enough! I’m on the nature side of the argument here.

Steve in DC
December 11th, 2008

Your personality traits sound a lot like mine…except that I am easily amused instead of being easily bored. I totally agree that being open minded and curious are keys to the travel addict.

I am also fascinated by discovering how other people in other cultures live. I guess I am a travel voyeur….I love learning how different people go about their daily lives..what makes them happy, what they like to eat, and how they interact with others.

I have to force my one sibling and my parents to travel…so I definitely believe that genes have only partly to do with it. Put me on the fence on this one.

Louise Brown
December 11th, 2008

As always, the answer is a little bit of both…

Golden Prague
December 11th, 2008

Of both a bit, my parents loved to travel and so do I, but what I love even more is living in foreign countries, perhaps I am by nationality “Expat”? SY

Mark
December 11th, 2008

I think that the urge to travel primarily reflects an individual’s personality. Of the Big Five traits talked about in psychology, Openness to Experience is probably the most relevant: people ranking high in this trait are curious, unconventional, imaginative, adventurous and novelty-seeking.

I think that people who don’t feel the urge to travel probably don’t rank as high on this trait.

If the urge to travel is dictated by personality, it’s really tough to say either nature or nurture, because they are far too intertwined to separate convincingly.

So I’ll go with a mix of both.

J. Smith
December 11th, 2008

I run through this with friends from myhome town all the time. I ask- why don’t you guys get up, get out and get something? What are you still doing here? Don’t you realize that you can go anywhere you want at any time you want? It’s incredible, but many of them just don’t have that urge. Me, I like walking down the street just because I know it’s going to expose me to something new, something that I otherwise would not have run into. Experience is what it’s all about. you just don’t get that staying in the same spot, doing a lot of the same things. Good piece- thanks for that!

VagabondstoryDOTcom
December 11th, 2008

Restlessness, curiosity and open-mindedness… so well put. I couldn’t agree more. Keep up the great work Amanda!

Hal
December 12th, 2008

I agree with Ahi’s comment that genetic makeup, or instinct, could play a role. After all, our distant ancestors spread from Africa to cover the globe (albeit rather gradually).

Paul Murray
December 12th, 2008

Wow Amanda, it’s like you’re me but in an alternate universe!

I grew up in Brisbane, Australia, but spent 6 months in Fiji when I was 9, and all those traits you mentioned (curiosity, boredom etc.) sound like me…

I’ve been to so many different places since then and am currently halfway through a 12 month world trip with my wife.

I don’t think you can really say for sure – everyone’s different. For those like you and me, it’s both, for some it’s one or the other, and for someone like Eva (first commenter) it’s neither! Just one more thing to add to the list that proves the world is an amazing place :-)

Caz
December 14th, 2008

Total, 100%…nature.

By the time I was born, I was the last of several kids and essentially raised as an only child. I guess after being in so many wars, my parents had absolutely no interest in travel. I spent most of my childhood spinning a National Geographic globe, dreaming of going to faraway places. I watched Charles Kuralt wandering in search of random stories in his RV and was horribly jealous!

I grew up on the East Coast, and it wasn’t until I was 20 when I finally got west of the Mississippi River. Got my first passport at 22. Ten years later, I’ve hit 4 continents and 22 countries…but trying to make up for lost time completely burned me out.

Interestingly enough, about half the time I want to stay “home” (wherever that may be at the moment) and be bored. It’s good to give the body and mind some rest and time to process all that I’ve experienced. So I’d say I’m 25% restless, 50% curious, and 25% open-minded :)

Turner
December 14th, 2008

Eh, they’re theorizing more and more about our psychology is related to genetic memory. Who knows? If it turns out few of us have the travel gene, we could design a gene therapy.

Denae
December 15th, 2008

I’m just not sure where the need to travel comes from. My parents took my brother and I all around the Western United States in road trips when we were kids. They did a few trips abroad but when I was an adult I made my own decision to see the world. For me, it might have to do with my family because they are always striving for new experiences and a better life so my translation of it is to see the world I guess.

Enduring Wanderlust
December 27th, 2008

Interesting article, Amanda.

I land in the camp of nature and nurture. No doubt some are born with a greater need to explore, but without an environment that lends itself to the ability to take advantage of travel opportunities the need may not be realized.

Fafah
August 6th, 2009

HI guys,
I think that it dependds on you whether nature or nurture;
but I like the fact that Amanda was risen up with travelling !me too I want to travel abroad
That’s cool !I can learn other’s culture and so on I like that





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